Health Checks Before You Start Trying
Before trying for a baby, it's worth having the MMR vaccine if you haven't already, checking whether your cervical screening is due, and getting tested for sexually transmitted infections if there's any chance you or your partner could have one. If you have any worries about pregnancy — for example, after cancer treatment or due to an existing health condition — it's worth discussing planning a pregnancy with a GP.
Preparing Your Body
Taking vitamin D and folic acid, getting support to stop smoking, avoiding alcohol and illegal drugs, eating a healthy diet, and aiming for a healthy weight can all help improve your chances of a healthy pregnancy. Being significantly overweight in pregnancy can raise the risk of complications such as high blood pressure, pre-eclampsia, gestational diabetes and blood clots, though your maternity team will support you throughout to help manage these risks. Never stop taking prescribed medicine without speaking to a GP or specialist first, since they can advise on the safest options while you're trying to conceive.
When to See a GP
Speak to a GP if you or your partner live with a condition such as epilepsy, diabetes, sickle cell disease or HIV; take prescribed, over-the-counter, or herbal medicines; have a known fertility issue such as endometriosis or low sperm count; find sex difficult, for example due to a disability; have been trying to conceive for a year or more; or need help stopping smoking, drinking, or using illegal drugs.
How Conception Works
How long it takes to conceive varies for everyone, depending on age, general health, any fertility issues, how often you have sex, and the method used (natural conception or artificial insemination). If you're 39 or under and have unprotected sex every 2 to 3 days, it's likely you'll conceive within a year; with artificial insemination, it may take 6 to 12 cycles. You're most fertile around ovulation, typically about 14 days before your next period, depending on your cycle length.
LGBT+ people planning a family can find specific guidance on the different routes to parenthood, including donor conception and surrogacy. If conceiving is taking longer than expected, a GP can arrange fertility tests for you and your partner, with treatment options such as medicine, surgery, IVF, or intrauterine insemination (IUI) available depending on the cause identified.